“Learning how to contract your power and personality is of incredible importance”
Daniel Lubetzky
Have you instantly felt drawn to a person while being in their presence? Did their presence brighten the atmosphere with positive energy? So what makes them have the “it” factor in them? This is the result of a developed personality.
What is Personality Development and why is it important?
Personality development is a process to enhance one’s identity in order to leave an everlasting impression. Everyone prefers a person who radiates positive energy and is optimistic. An individual’s personality is his/her’s ‘Unique Selling Proposition’ (USP). Thus, personality development helps an individual bring out a unique best quality in them
A good personality is very crucial as it helps in career advancement and in the establishment of positive connections with people. It can help build confidence, communication skills and presentation skills.
The first impression could certainly be your last impression
Next time you meet someone new, make sure you are perceived as approachable. Greet the person with a kind smile and shake hands with gratitude. This will make you look friendly and welcoming.
Work on your conversation skills
Right from the pitch of your voice to the quality of language that you use, matters. Stay soft-spoken; speak facts with confidence. Refrain from using abusive and condescending language. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, hence we need not have an altercation. A healthy argument by both parties can maintain the decorum without sounding disreputable.
Look presentable
Shabby clothes, unkempt nails and hair, poor hygiene are often big turn-offs to others. Dress according to the occasion (formal/informal). Maintain a grooming routine to look clean and fresh.
Improve your body language
Body language is the foremost factor while making an impactful first impression. Bad habits, slouching posture, foul gestures can cause people to feel repelled by you. From initiating friendships to starting a new job, body language plays an important role. Maintain proper eye contact while speaking but do not stare. Uncrossing your arms will show that you are relaxed. You can use hand gestures while getting your point across. Be confident!
Don’t shy away from social interactions, get out of your comfort zone
You need not become a social butterfly but you can certainly improve your interactions at a personal and professional level. You can expand your social network by talking to new people and by engaging in common interests. This will help you to build connections and successfully try out different things which can be challenging yet fulfilling.
Thus, your personality is reflected even before you begin speaking and a good personality will undeniably draw people towards you!
Blog Author: Apurva Desai